Happy Birthday Dad!

Happy Birthday Dad!!! Yesterday (April 21st) was Dad's birthday, and oh what a great day we had!! Dad's BFF Kevin and Uncle John flew in this weekend which was SO wonderful, it was just non stop laughter yesterday. Dad wanted to go big this year for his birthday so we got tickets to the Joe Bonamassa concert. Before the concert we ordered in NYPD pizza and feasted like kings.

My favorite picture

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We love Uncle John!

Dad and Kevin

Best bros

Happy Birthday!

Well we didn't have any ordinary experience at the concert, let me tell you! After security escorted us all to the front of the ticket line, we took our seats in the SECOND row! Oh yeah, and it was awesome. We were so close we could see Joe Bonamassa's chest hair! I am sure by now most of you are wondering who Joe Bonamassa is...because lets be honest I had never heard of him until we decided to do this. Dad likes to say he is "the next Eric Clapton", and after seeing the concert I believe it! What an incredible guitarist and singer.

So excited

At the end of the concert, Joe threw his guitar pic and Dad got it!!! So great

Dad has been taking it easy since he has been home. He is still draining fluid out of where he had the chest tube in the right lung. Anytime he laughs or coughs fluid will seep out of the wound! Better out than in :) Since it has been leaking so much we started to use maxi pads vs. gauze to cover the wound and its working great! I bet Dad never thought he would ever have to use a maxi pad hahah :) Dad had an appointment with Dr. Siever today. Everything is looking "satisfactory" but after all he went through the last few weeks that is ok. He said he needs to exercise and eat which I'm sure will help with his swelling (yes he is still swollen :( ) 

We have a few more doctor's appointments lined up the next few weeks, but until then we are taking things day by day! Each day is a blessing and one that he gains more strength than the previous day. Have a great week!

Happy birthday Daddy, we love you!!

Ps...the spot on Dad's shirt is not fluid seepage...but instead pizza grease...just another sign of a great feast :)

A Quick Update!

What day is it? What is my name? I think that is how we are all feeling right now after a crazy few weeks of hospitals, doctors, tests, and crappy televisions. I apologize for the lack of blog updates, every day I kept saying I would write an update the following day when we got more information but it turned out to be a never ending cycle! Hopefully I can get you caught up to speed :)

Rewind back to the 26th of March, we met with Dad's NEW chemo doctor, Dr. Ejadi, at TGen. We had a great appointment and fell in love with him from the beginning. He listened to Dads entire story, the issues he was having, ect and wasted no time in setting up a plan. He wanted to get a CT scan to see what was going on after the 4 rounds of chemo so he got him in 30 minutes later! By the time Dad got home Dr. Ejadi called Dad back and said he needed to turn around and check himself into the ER because there was fluid around his heart.

Always all smiles, even in the ER

To keep the first few weeks simple, Dad stayed in the hospital for four days to be monitored while they put him on a few medications to get rid of the fluid around his heart. Not only was there fluid but his heart was beating very irregularly, up to 192 beats per minute! Since his hear twas beating so fast, his body was only focusing on his lungs and heart which led to edema (swelling of the limbs). They ended up sending him home because we all agreed that he could rest at home just as he was in the hospital. The next week he was still feeling lethargic, extremely short of breath so he went to see the cardiologist who put him on another medication and sent him home. Three days later we checked him back into the ER because he was just not getting better. Saturday the 6th Dad had surgery to remove the fluid around his heart and in his lungs. They then placed tubes from both lungs and the heart to drain the fluid into little boxes that look like this:

Sleeeeeppppyyy

Dad stayed in the ICU until Tuesday the 9th where they moved him to the telemetry wing because he was doing better. He was good until about 7pm that night and had a big set back. By Wednesday he wasn't able to walk anymore and could barely breath in or out. The nurses didn't think he was going to make it and Dad really didn't think he was going to either. After many answered prayers Dads health was going in an upward direction on Thursday and he started eating, walking, and breathing better. Since then, he is down to one tube in his right lung and has lost at least ten pound of water weight.

Dad has now been in the hospital 10 consecutive days and Lord knows he is bored out of his mind! We moved to the oncology floor yesterday which was exciting because Dad now has a flat screen TV in his room instead of a green tinted RCA TV (imagine watching 4 days of The Masters on a green TV). The right lung is still draining a little bit too much to let him go home so they are going to try another medication to stop the fluid. Praying Dad gets to go home in the next few days, he is getting cabin fever :)

What am I forgetting? A million things I can already tell, but all you need to know is that Dad is doing much better! Thank you all so much for the calls and prayers the last few weeks. I know we don't always return your calls, but just know that we appreciate them regardless. I will update again in the next week when we know more, love you all!
 

RN Clown visit, she prescribed chocolate

Dave Harmon came to visit!

First night out of the ICU

Getting an ultrasound to check for blood clots

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Listening to some tunes

One of Dad's carepackages..thank you to the Hollidays and everyone else that sent stuff for Dad!

Getting ready to walk some laps

We have been taking lots of naps

Best Buds

RIP Joe

I wanted to start my blog today in hopes that you all will lift my Dad's good friend Joe Leister and his family up in your prayers. Joe passed away this Sunday after a hard fight with brain cancer. Dad loved and respected him as both a friend and a pilot and I know will miss him very much. A few months after Dad was diagnosed, Joe called Dad and said "OJ, I think you gave me cancer!" They flew together right before Dad was diagnosed and not long before Joe was. It will always be one of my favorite stories because its rare to find two men who can truly find the humor in cancer. RIP Joe.

Dad has definitely kept busy the last few weeks. Here is what you missed:

Uncle John came into town again... a few days filled with food, golf, and naps!

Little did you know...we are actually aliens.

Dad went to the Eric Clapton concert last week

They had great seats and a great time!

He got to play golf with some of our neighbors growing up, I can't even imagine the trouble they got in to!

Mr. Bill and Dad

Mr. Scott, Mr. Bill, and Dad

On Saturday Dad went to a spring training game with Cunningham and his family. We were excited because I was going too with some friends so we were going to meet up for a little bit. Welllll after 45 minutes of trying to find each other, we realized we were at two different spring training games! It was definitely a "blonde" moment for us but one that keeps us laughing.

The sweetest.

Aside from all of the fun, Dad has really felt like crap the last three weeks, and honestly this whole chemo round. Dad is still holding his own though even with the lack of energy, nausea, back pain, and hard time sleeping. 

Well yesterday was already days 4 chemo cycle, but the day did not go smoothly to say the least. We waited over an hour for blood work, which is fine we are flexible and know they are busy. From blood work we always go up to meet with Dr. K. Yesterday, instead of meeting with Dr. K, we met with a Nurse Practitioner...wait what?? There is nothing against NP's, heck I am studying to be one, but yesterday was a huge appointment one in which we were to discuss major points in Dad's treatment and health. Here are the main points from the meeting:

1. The Nurse Practitioner was so incredibly condescending and acted as if we were an inconvenience to her
2. Dad's stomach issues are not getting better and he is on 3-4 medications to fix it. I asked if we could do a scan or test and was ignored and Dad was told to just take his meds.
3. Dad had to do a urinalysis after the last chemo so when we told her no one ever calls us and we never got the results she said "yes they do call you" as if we were lying so Dad rightfully snapped back and told her she was wrong. Her only response was "then thats what these appointments are for". Can I just tell you that our last appointment he wanted Dad to see a counselor, we didn't hear anything for 3 weeks and the appointment is not until next week. 4 weeks. It takes 4 weeks to get an appointment for something that is supposed to help him? Awesome.
4. She couldn't refill Dad's Atavan because it wasn't refillable for another 3 weeks. Well if she would have listened that Dad was taking 2 .5mg pills in order to sleep should would have had the same light bulb I did...why not prescribe him the 1mg dose so he can sleep and not have to worry about running out? Ding dong.
5. We are due back April 9th to meet with Dr. K to discuss the results from the urinalysis and to schedule the scan. Ummm no, why are we going to waste our time to wait 3 weeks to be told we need to scan and then another 2 to get the results and another 1-2 to schedule the chemo. These people are out of their mind. We are calling next week to set up the scan (both chest and abdomen) ourselves.

By the time we got up to Christine for chemo, we were all red in the face. She was appalled at what happened and told us not only what we should do but also looked at all of his meds and explained their symptoms and why he is feeling the way he is feeling. FINALLY. Christine is such a beautiful example of the kind of service that a nurse or doctor should be giving. She takes the time to really look at the issues at hand and figure out what needs to be done to fix them. She is one of our many angels and we are so blessed she is helping to take care of Dad.

After a very frustrating day I am pretty sure I can speak for all of us when I say we were feeling a little down in the dumps. Days like that really make you question if you are at a hospital that is truly watching out for your best intentions and planning your best chance for survival. Any time I am feeling frustrated I remind myself of Angela Faddis, a woman in our community who died of colon cancer 6 months ago. I have been following their family's blog for quite sometime and their faith is nothing short of inspirational and always reminds me that my hope truly lies with God and what is or isn't going on with the hospital. We continue to pray daily for God's healing and are grateful to those of you who continue to pray with us. Will keep you updated, have a great week!

"In all of this, we know that our true hope lies in God. It is easy to find hope in a certain treatment, or surgery or Cancer Center. It is easy to place our hope in a clinical trial or some other means, but in the end our hope is in Christ. Our faith urges us to seek healing and to never stop hoping." -Chris Faddis

Taxotera=Suckotera

Hi all! Well February has come and almost gone...and I have let my blog draft sit for far too long! [Sorry Nan!] Dad has now had three treatments of Taxotera...which I would like to call "suckotera". Dad has been so blessed the last year to be basically side effect free from the chemos, but the taxotera is showing no mercy. Dad has honestly felt like crap since he started on taxotera. It's not allowing him to sleep, he is throwing up more, and worst of all, in his opinion, he is losing his hair. We went to get it cut a few weeks ago when it started falling out which was hard for Dad, but honestly I love his hair short! Since then his hair has thinned out a lot, but still holding strong. We were cracking up today because it's almost like his brown hair fell out, and his grey hair is hanging on for dear life! 

Dad had an appointment with Dr. Siever last week to check on his wheezing. The symbicort inhaler is working wonders for Dad and is helping him breath a lot better. He uses it twice a day and then a different inhaler if he needs in between. While he was there he was prescribed Trazadone for anxiety and Percocet for pain in hopes that that was the cause of him not sleeping. It was a rough week for Dad trying to figure out the right "cocktail" to use. The mixtures were either too strong so he was sleeping in until 8 (unheard of, even for a good night's sleep) and "hungover" all day from the drugs or the mixtures were too light and he was getting up at midnight. Dad thinks he has figured out the right dosage to take and will hopefully be on the road to many restful nights. Sheesh, the things a guy's gotta do to get some sleep!

Yesterday was another chemo day, it is amazing how some days are so packed and full of long waits and others are empty and we get called back the second we sit in the waiting room! Standard blood work first and then we saw Dr. K which went well. We talked about how Dad has been feeling (every time he gets asked all he does is take of his hat to show his hair loss, it makes me laugh) and all the new drugs Dad is on. Dr. K wants Dad to see Dr. Goodall, a counselor at MD Anderson. He thinks it will be beneficial to Dad to talk to someone considering he has been living with a life changing disease the last year. He thinks it will hopefully it will help with the sleeping so that should be scheduled here pretty soon.

I feel like we need to start calling chemo "chemo with Kristine" because we always request her to be our nurse (naturally, she is the best). Chatting with her always makes the chemo go by so much faster...but lets be honest we are only up there two hours! My good friend Cynthia had her class make get well cards for Dad which were soo sweet. We opened them during chemo and were laughing so hard!

The group fav "Hello OJ, My name is Carolina. I am 7 years old. I hope you get mush (much) better. I like spgedy (spagetti). I hope you love my pigr (picture). Happy Valentines Day!"

We have one more round of chemo to do and then we will rescan to see how it is working. When Dad was at Siever's they did an Xray which showed no change in the tumor since we started, which is good it is stable. We don't have much planned the next few weeks, just hanging out! Will keep you updated, thank you for all the continued prayers...we are so blessed!

Chemo 2/5/2013

Chemo 2/5/2013

Valentine's Day @ Morning Squeeze...best date ever!

Like father like daughter...naptime never gets old

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PS-I DO have a sister who spends all of her free time with Dad as well, she just doesn't like to take pictures :) #shoutout Love ya sis.

One Year Ago...

Can you believe that one year ago today, I was writing my first blog post for A Cup of OJ?! We were sitting in Dr. Siever's office today and realized that it was exactly one year ago today that this whole journey started...and what a journey it has been! Although cancer is not a journey anyone wants to go through, I'd say we've been pretty blessed thus far!

Well it has been a pretty insane couple of weeks! As I started writing I realized I haven't even written about the first biopsy (just a littleeeeee behind on the blog). They did a needle biopsy through the lung and it went really well. Dad was in and out in no time! When we got the results, Dr. Weiss said that they were non-cancerous. WHAT?! We were shocked. They wanted to do more testing so we got an bronchoscopy, the same procedure dad had a year ago that diagnosed the cancer. When Dr. Wright came out after he was finished, he said the mass looked like scar tissue, and much different than it did a year ago. They weren't official results, but I thought I was going to puke! 

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Food Coma

Well we got the results, and there are still cancer cells in the tumor...which is what we all figured. Regardless, I know God is still working his wonder on Dad and I am confident the original biopsy results were not a mistake, yet a sign letting us know God is still with us through this journey.

Dad started Taxotere on the 15th. We got to sit with Christine and catch up with her which is always so lovely. The chemo itself takes no time at all! We were out of there in under 3 hours! Dad has responded pretty well to the chemo so far. There were a few days last week where I think his energy level was lower than he would admit :). This week we think he caught the stomach flu, he couldn't keep anything down for almost a full day! Poor thing. He is feeling much better now though. Uncle John also got to fly in last week which was wonderful! They played golf everyday until they got rained out Thursday and we had to send Uncle John home.

They took probably 15 pictures...this one was the best and they still all have goofy, sun blinded smiles!

Breakfast date!

Our appointment with Siever went well today. Dad got a new inhaler because his wheezing has been pretty bad. He also showed us pictures from the bronchoscopy which was SO COOL! It was nice to finally see real pictures of what they see.

These are the pictures of Dad's left bronchial tubes. The bottom left picture shows mucous and cancer cells. They aren't sure what those white things are in his bronchial tubes, Dr. Siever thinks possibly scar tissue.

We have a pretty uneventful week this coming week, but start chemo again next Tuesday. Dad will probably look a little different next week when I post pictures, he started losing his hair today. Although everyone says it's "just hair", its a huge part of a person. Although I think Dad will look handsome no matter what, he thinks he has "an alien head"...direct quote. We all love you daddy, hair or not, cancer or not, you are our hero!

Love that smile! Dad did not love those burgers so much.

Comparison of Dad's lungs from July (right) to now (left)

New Beginnings

Happy New Year!! And I suppose I should wish everyone a belated Merry Christmas as well! I hope you all had an amazing holiday season, I know we did! Christmas was definitely the best we ever had, so very special. Dad and I went to mass in the morning, followed by the traditional breakfast burritos by Mom. We opened presents, napped, and went to see Les Miserables. The movie was so incredible...but the fact that we brought shrimp cocktail and fritos with onion dip made the movie 10x better. It was a great, great day! We didn't get around to sending out Christmas cards this year so here is our Christmas card picture for your enjoyment:

Typical!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We took these while celebrating Kristen's 22nd birthday on the 20th. I can't believe she is 22! I tell her all the time and I know she gets so annoyed, but I still feel like she is my 13 year old baby sister!

Yesterday we met with Dr. K at MD Anderson. It was good to see Dr. K again, he was very chipper yesterday. However they did not hear anything from TGen! I was a little disappointed in TGen yesterday, but apparently they sent the paperwork and scans on the 17th... Dr. K had no idea what was going on so we had to fill him in on everything. Long story short, our plan now is to have the biopsy tomorrow and when we get the results go from there. We will tentatively start Taxotera on the 15th depending on what the biopsy shows (remember we are looking to find out specific chemo cocktails that could benefit Dad). Dad has been having some back pain which makes it hard for him to sleep so Dr. K prescribed him some painkillers so he isn't taking a million ibuprofen.

It felt like a lot had change had happened at MD...new nurses, new doctors, and twice as many patients. We could not believe how many people were waiting for blood work, it was insane! Not to fret though we still got to see our favorites Juanita and Christine! I also locked eyes with Jill...muahaha "we'reeeeee baccckkkkkk".

We are ready to take on 2013 and all of the new beginnings it will bring us full force! God has blessed us with a family full of strength and positivity which makes facing any and all new changes easier. Please keep Dad in your prayers tomorrow and in the next few weeks while we are awaiting results. We are so blessed for you all! Xoxo